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Success Quote by Alberto Tomba

"I was introverted, shy. But if you win a lot you need to be extroverted, or they'll think you're arrogant"

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Tomba is admitting that winning isn’t just a scoreboard problem; it’s a public-relations job you inherit the moment you start dominating. The line pivots on a quiet, uneasy truth in sports culture: excellence is rarely allowed to be neutral. If you’re reserved, people don’t read “private,” they read “cold,” “entitled,” “too good for us.” So the champion learns to perform warmth as a kind of damage control.

The intent here is almost confessional. He’s not bragging about his wins; he’s describing the psychological tax they impose. “You need to be extroverted” isn’t a personality tip, it’s a survival strategy in a media ecosystem that wants access, gratitude, and charm as proof you deserve the spotlight. The subtext is that arrogance is often a story spectators tell themselves when they can’t get emotional confirmation from the person they’re cheering (or resenting). Extroversion becomes a prophylactic against envy.

Context matters: Tomba wasn’t just a skier, he was a late-80s/90s Italian megastar, the kind of athlete who had to carry interviews, headlines, sponsorships, and a national mood along with his equipment. In that era especially, “character” was sold as hard as performance, and the camera punished ambiguity. The quote exposes how fame polices temperament: if you’re winning, you don’t get to be merely good. You have to be likable on command, or your silence will be translated into sin.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Tomba, Alberto. (2026, January 15). I was introverted, shy. But if you win a lot you need to be extroverted, or they'll think you're arrogant. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-was-introverted-shy-but-if-you-win-a-lot-you-144705/

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Tomba, Alberto. "I was introverted, shy. But if you win a lot you need to be extroverted, or they'll think you're arrogant." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-was-introverted-shy-but-if-you-win-a-lot-you-144705/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I was introverted, shy. But if you win a lot you need to be extroverted, or they'll think you're arrogant." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-was-introverted-shy-but-if-you-win-a-lot-you-144705/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Alberto Tomba (born December 19, 1966) is a Athlete from Italy.

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