"I was just talking about women, just in terms of understanding them as much as we can ever understand the opposite sex. I'm trying to let go of certain male approaches to things that you inherit, that you grow up with"
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The key move is the pivot from “understanding them” to interrogating himself. He frames the “opposite sex” not as a puzzle to solve but as a boundary that exposes the limits of male certainty. It’s a modest admission with an edge: the real subject isn’t women, it’s inherited masculinity - the “approaches” you don’t exactly choose, because they arrive preinstalled through family, media, and peer culture.
As an actor, Ward’s intent also feels craft-adjacent. Acting is empathy with structure: you study behavior, motives, power. His language suggests he’s applying that same discipline offscreen, treating “male approaches” as a role he’s learned to play - and can, with effort, unlearn. “Let go” is doing heavy lifting here. It implies relinquishing habits that once felt natural, maybe even rewarded, and replacing them with something less automatic: listening, uncertainty, a willingness to be wrong.
The subtext is generational, too. A man from Ward’s era acknowledging masculinity as inherited behavior rather than destiny is a quiet revision of the script.
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| Topic | Letting Go |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Ward, Fred. (2026, January 16). I was just talking about women, just in terms of understanding them as much as we can ever understand the opposite sex. I'm trying to let go of certain male approaches to things that you inherit, that you grow up with. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-was-just-talking-about-women-just-in-terms-of-84207/
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Ward, Fred. "I was just talking about women, just in terms of understanding them as much as we can ever understand the opposite sex. I'm trying to let go of certain male approaches to things that you inherit, that you grow up with." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-was-just-talking-about-women-just-in-terms-of-84207/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I was just talking about women, just in terms of understanding them as much as we can ever understand the opposite sex. I'm trying to let go of certain male approaches to things that you inherit, that you grow up with." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-was-just-talking-about-women-just-in-terms-of-84207/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.










