"I was made to be a perfectionist at everything I did. Everything was more important than what I wanted"
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The second sentence sharpens the sting. “Everything” is deliberately vague, which is the point: it suggests a life governed by external priorities so pervasive they don’t even need to be named. Work, reputation, approval, the next role, being easy to manage, being “professional” in the way Hollywood rewards. When he says “more important than what I wanted,” he’s not just talking about sacrifice; he’s admitting that desire itself can get misfiled as indulgence. Want becomes a liability.
Coming from an actor, the subtext gets richer. Acting is built on other people’s wants: scripts, directors, audiences, the market’s fickle taste. The perfectionist impulse is often framed as craft, but Quaid hints at its darker twin: performance as survival strategy. If you can nail every take, anticipate every need, keep everyone happy, you reduce the risk of being replaced. It’s control disguised as excellence.
The intent feels less like confession for sympathy and more like reframing. He’s naming the cost of being “good” all the time - and implying that reclaiming what you want isn’t selfish. It’s overdue.
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| Topic | Self-Discipline |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Quaid, Dennis. (2026, January 16). I was made to be a perfectionist at everything I did. Everything was more important than what I wanted. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-was-made-to-be-a-perfectionist-at-everything-i-130900/
Chicago Style
Quaid, Dennis. "I was made to be a perfectionist at everything I did. Everything was more important than what I wanted." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-was-made-to-be-a-perfectionist-at-everything-i-130900/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I was made to be a perfectionist at everything I did. Everything was more important than what I wanted." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-was-made-to-be-a-perfectionist-at-everything-i-130900/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.










