"I was never jailed. The fact is that I was arrested, but I went into a diversion programme, and by that time I'd already begun working in what was called anger management. It was a painful and awful moment"
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Then comes the pivot into bureaucratic redemption: “diversion programme,” “anger management.” The language is conspicuously procedural, almost clinical, as if the proper nouns and official-sounding terms can launder the messiness of whatever happened into a sanctioned storyline of reform. It’s a familiar post-incident script, but Soul delivers it with a kind of careful sequencing - “by that time I’d already begun” - that subtly claims proactivity. Not only did the system offer an off-ramp; he was already taking it. The subtext is clear: I was responsible before I was compelled to be.
The closing admission, “It was a painful and awful moment,” is the emotional release valve, but it’s also strategically vague. Painful for whom? Awful in what way? The sentence centers the experience of the speaker without forcing him to detail harm, victims, or specifics. It’s contrition filtered through self-protection: an attempt to be seen as remorseful while keeping the story in safe, general terms.
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| Topic | Anger |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Soul, David. (2026, January 17). I was never jailed. The fact is that I was arrested, but I went into a diversion programme, and by that time I'd already begun working in what was called anger management. It was a painful and awful moment. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-was-never-jailed-the-fact-is-that-i-was-52402/
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Soul, David. "I was never jailed. The fact is that I was arrested, but I went into a diversion programme, and by that time I'd already begun working in what was called anger management. It was a painful and awful moment." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-was-never-jailed-the-fact-is-that-i-was-52402/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I was never jailed. The fact is that I was arrested, but I went into a diversion programme, and by that time I'd already begun working in what was called anger management. It was a painful and awful moment." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-was-never-jailed-the-fact-is-that-i-was-52402/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.





