"I was never one to patiently pick up broken fragments and glue them together again and tell myself that the mended whole was as good as new. What is broken is broken - and I'd rather remember it as it was at its best than mend it and see the broken places as long as I lived"
About this Quote
The subtext is pride disguised as practicality. “What is broken is broken” sounds like realism, but it also functions as permission: permission to leave, to stop negotiating, to refuse the quiet humiliation of living inside a compromised version of your own life. She frames mending as a kind of self-gaslighting (“tell myself”), implying that repair often requires a narrative you don’t fully believe. That’s a dagger aimed at the romantic myth of second chances, especially in relationships: reconciliation can become a museum of damage, where every repaired crack is still a visible exhibit.
Context matters. Mitchell wrote from a Southern imagination obsessed with loss and the performance of dignity after catastrophe - personal, social, historical. The quote echoes the Gone with the Wind sensibility: nostalgia as armor, memory curated into something cleaner than the present. It’s not an endorsement of emotional maturity; it’s an argument for choosing a beautiful past over an imperfect future, and the sting of it is that the argument can sound like strength while quietly admitting fear.
Quote Details
| Topic | Heartbreak |
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| Source | Gone with the Wind — Margaret Mitchell, 1936. Passage appears in the novel (exact page varies by edition). |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Mitchell, Margaret. (2026, January 18). I was never one to patiently pick up broken fragments and glue them together again and tell myself that the mended whole was as good as new. What is broken is broken - and I'd rather remember it as it was at its best than mend it and see the broken places as long as I lived. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-was-never-one-to-patiently-pick-up-broken-23123/
Chicago Style
Mitchell, Margaret. "I was never one to patiently pick up broken fragments and glue them together again and tell myself that the mended whole was as good as new. What is broken is broken - and I'd rather remember it as it was at its best than mend it and see the broken places as long as I lived." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-was-never-one-to-patiently-pick-up-broken-23123/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I was never one to patiently pick up broken fragments and glue them together again and tell myself that the mended whole was as good as new. What is broken is broken - and I'd rather remember it as it was at its best than mend it and see the broken places as long as I lived." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-was-never-one-to-patiently-pick-up-broken-23123/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.






