"I was nine or 10 years old and my father was sacked on Christmas Day. He was a manager, the results had not been good, he lost a game on December 22 or 23. On Christmas Day, the telephone rang and he was sacked in the middle of our lunch"
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Mourinho frames his father as “a manager” before he’s a dad, sliding you into the profession-first logic that will define the rest of the anecdote. “The results had not been good” is deliberately flat, almost bureaucratic, as if he’s already internalized the club’s language. Then comes the absurdly precise countdown: lose on the 22nd or 23rd, fired on the 25th. That compressed timeline captures the impatience baked into elite football, where evaluation windows are measured in games, not seasons, and where the “human resources” department is a ringing telephone.
The subtext is personal and strategic. Mourinho isn’t only explaining why he’s hardened; he’s quietly justifying the armor: the suspicion, the siege mentality, the us-versus-them stance. If this is what the industry did to his family at nine, his adult refusal to be sentimental starts to look less like arrogance and more like self-defense. It’s also a reminder that in football, cruelty often arrives wearing administrative calm.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Mourinho, Jose. (n.d.). I was nine or 10 years old and my father was sacked on Christmas Day. He was a manager, the results had not been good, he lost a game on December 22 or 23. On Christmas Day, the telephone rang and he was sacked in the middle of our lunch. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-was-nine-or-10-years-old-and-my-father-was-146770/
Chicago Style
Mourinho, Jose. "I was nine or 10 years old and my father was sacked on Christmas Day. He was a manager, the results had not been good, he lost a game on December 22 or 23. On Christmas Day, the telephone rang and he was sacked in the middle of our lunch." FixQuotes. Accessed February 2, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-was-nine-or-10-years-old-and-my-father-was-146770/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I was nine or 10 years old and my father was sacked on Christmas Day. He was a manager, the results had not been good, he lost a game on December 22 or 23. On Christmas Day, the telephone rang and he was sacked in the middle of our lunch." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-was-nine-or-10-years-old-and-my-father-was-146770/. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.





