"I was on the stairs coming down when she let him in"
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Then comes the subtle pivot of agency: "when she let him in". The subject doing the real action is "she", not "I". Lizzie’s sentence quietly assigns responsibility to another woman in the house (typically the maid), making the visitor’s entry someone else’s decision, someone else’s mistake. It’s the grammar of distance: if you can’t deny a fact, you can at least keep your fingerprints off it.
The brilliance is how ordinary it sounds. There’s no melodrama, no decorative detail, just domestic logistics. That plainness works as a shield; it asks the listener to accept the story because it’s boring, because it resembles a thousand harmless households. In the Borden case’s cultural afterlife - part true crime, part American folklore - that’s exactly the kind of line that survives: a small, plausible slice of routine that can be replayed endlessly, either as proof of normalcy or as the chilling calm of someone narrating the last mundane moment before a rupture.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Borden, Lizzie Andrew. (n.d.). I was on the stairs coming down when she let him in. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-was-on-the-stairs-coming-down-when-she-let-him-93379/
Chicago Style
Borden, Lizzie Andrew. "I was on the stairs coming down when she let him in." FixQuotes. Accessed February 1, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-was-on-the-stairs-coming-down-when-she-let-him-93379/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I was on the stairs coming down when she let him in." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-was-on-the-stairs-coming-down-when-she-let-him-93379/. Accessed 1 Feb. 2026.





