"I was raised by a single mother who made a way for me. She used to scrub floors as a domestic worker, put a cleaning rag in her pocketbook and ride the subways in Brooklyn so I would have food on the table. But she taught me as I walked her to the subway that life is about not where you start, but where you're going. That's family values"
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The subtext is a political judo move. “Family values” has often been claimed by conservative rhetoric to imply who counts as legitimate. Sharpton flips it, arguing that the truest measure of family is sacrifice under pressure, especially in a single-parent household that public discourse frequently stigmatizes. He’s also drawing a straight line from private struggle to public purpose: the walk to the subway becomes a classroom, the mother’s commute a sermon on ambition and dignity.
The line “not where you start, but where you’re going” taps America’s upward-mobility myth, but Sharpton doesn’t present it as a feel-good abstraction. He anchors it in an economy that forces certain people to clean other people’s homes to keep their own afloat. In that context, the optimism isn’t naive; it’s defiant. “That’s family values” lands as a challenge: if you want to talk morality, start with who gets worked to the bone and who gets praised for it.
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Sharpton, Al. (2026, January 16). I was raised by a single mother who made a way for me. She used to scrub floors as a domestic worker, put a cleaning rag in her pocketbook and ride the subways in Brooklyn so I would have food on the table. But she taught me as I walked her to the subway that life is about not where you start, but where you're going. That's family values. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-was-raised-by-a-single-mother-who-made-a-way-127374/
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Sharpton, Al. "I was raised by a single mother who made a way for me. She used to scrub floors as a domestic worker, put a cleaning rag in her pocketbook and ride the subways in Brooklyn so I would have food on the table. But she taught me as I walked her to the subway that life is about not where you start, but where you're going. That's family values." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-was-raised-by-a-single-mother-who-made-a-way-127374/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I was raised by a single mother who made a way for me. She used to scrub floors as a domestic worker, put a cleaning rag in her pocketbook and ride the subways in Brooklyn so I would have food on the table. But she taught me as I walked her to the subway that life is about not where you start, but where you're going. That's family values." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-was-raised-by-a-single-mother-who-made-a-way-127374/. Accessed 4 Feb. 2026.





