"I was really desperate. I don't know if you can remember back that far, but when I went to graduate school they didn't want females in graduate school. They were very open about it. They didn't mince their words. But then I got in and I got my degree"
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The most striking detail is the plainspoken cruelty: “They didn’t want females in graduate school. They were very open about it.” No euphemisms, no “barriers,” no “implicit bias.” Lucid insists on the era’s explicitness, which undercuts today’s tendency to sanitize discrimination into something abstract and bureaucratic. “They didn’t mince their words” also does sly work: it implies that the institution’s confidence in exclusion was total, socially endorsed, and unashamed.
Then comes the pivot: “But then I got in and I got my degree.” Not triumphal, not vengeful. The simplicity is the point. She refuses to center the antagonists or romanticize the struggle; she centers the outcome. Coming from an astronaut, it reads like a mission report: conditions were hostile, the objective remained, the task got done. The subtext is bracing: advancement didn’t arrive because minds were changed; it arrived because people like her forced entry and stayed long enough to become undeniable.
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Lucid, Shannon. (2026, January 15). I was really desperate. I don't know if you can remember back that far, but when I went to graduate school they didn't want females in graduate school. They were very open about it. They didn't mince their words. But then I got in and I got my degree. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-was-really-desperate-i-dont-know-if-you-can-168482/
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Lucid, Shannon. "I was really desperate. I don't know if you can remember back that far, but when I went to graduate school they didn't want females in graduate school. They were very open about it. They didn't mince their words. But then I got in and I got my degree." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-was-really-desperate-i-dont-know-if-you-can-168482/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I was really desperate. I don't know if you can remember back that far, but when I went to graduate school they didn't want females in graduate school. They were very open about it. They didn't mince their words. But then I got in and I got my degree." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-was-really-desperate-i-dont-know-if-you-can-168482/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.
