"I was single for six years and during those six years I went back to college and got my degree in Social Work and then... while I was single... Barney came here to Portsmouth on vacation"
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The subtext is a quiet argument with the cultural script that treats singlehood as a problem to be solved. Hill stacks achievements first: she “went back to college,” she “got my degree in Social Work.” The relationship arrives almost as an afterthought, introduced twice with “while I was single,” like she’s underlining the point for anyone who might try to rewrite the story as “I was alone until a man showed up.” Even Barney’s entrance is charmingly unglamorous: not fate at a gala, just Portsmouth “on vacation.” Romance as geography and timing, not destiny.
Context matters: Portsmouth reads like local specificity, a grounded place-name that signals community and plausibility. And the Social Work degree isn’t just a credential; it telegraphs values: care, resilience, competence. Hill isn’t selling a Cinderella arc. She’s offering a narrative many people need to hear in an era of delayed marriage and second acts: build your life in full sentences, and if love comes, it can be an add-on, not the headline.
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| Topic | Love |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Hill, Betty. (2026, January 16). I was single for six years and during those six years I went back to college and got my degree in Social Work and then... while I was single... Barney came here to Portsmouth on vacation. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-was-single-for-six-years-and-during-those-six-138408/
Chicago Style
Hill, Betty. "I was single for six years and during those six years I went back to college and got my degree in Social Work and then... while I was single... Barney came here to Portsmouth on vacation." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-was-single-for-six-years-and-during-those-six-138408/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I was single for six years and during those six years I went back to college and got my degree in Social Work and then... while I was single... Barney came here to Portsmouth on vacation." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-was-single-for-six-years-and-during-those-six-138408/. Accessed 11 Feb. 2026.

