"I was surprised that my wife thought it was a good idea, then again with my agent, another woman, then my editor, another woman - in spite of the fact that all three of them reacted positively, I still have this fear"
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The repetition does the heavy lifting. “Another woman, another woman” isn’t just a detail; it’s the point. Chabon is marking a pattern, almost like he’s building a case against himself: if the gatekeepers and first readers are women and they’re on board, what exactly is he bracing for? The subtext is less “women don’t get it” than “I’ve internalized the idea that I’m about to be judged for how I’ve written women, or what I’ve presumed about their experience.” It’s the anticipatory cringe of authorship: the fear that a book will be read not only for its craft but for its permissions.
Contextually, it sits in that late-20th/early-21st-century moment when male literary fiction writers became newly conscious of gendered scrutiny - not just from critics, but from the people who shepherd a manuscript into the world. Chabon’s candor is the move: he doesn’t perform innocence, he performs discomfort. That’s why it works. He’s admitting that endorsement doesn’t erase the older reflexes, it just exposes them.
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| Topic | Fear |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Chabon, Michael. (2026, February 18). I was surprised that my wife thought it was a good idea, then again with my agent, another woman, then my editor, another woman - in spite of the fact that all three of them reacted positively, I still have this fear. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-was-surprised-that-my-wife-thought-it-was-a-78314/
Chicago Style
Chabon, Michael. "I was surprised that my wife thought it was a good idea, then again with my agent, another woman, then my editor, another woman - in spite of the fact that all three of them reacted positively, I still have this fear." FixQuotes. February 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-was-surprised-that-my-wife-thought-it-was-a-78314/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I was surprised that my wife thought it was a good idea, then again with my agent, another woman, then my editor, another woman - in spite of the fact that all three of them reacted positively, I still have this fear." FixQuotes, 18 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-was-surprised-that-my-wife-thought-it-was-a-78314/. Accessed 25 Feb. 2026.






