"I was terribly shy when I was growing up, I really wasn't confident with other people and I think I was always afraid of up or not being this very cool, amazing person that I wanted to be"
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The intent isn’t confession for its own sake; it’s calibration. An actress, a profession built on being watched, frames her origin story around not feeling watchable enough. That contradiction is the hook: the public assumes performers are naturally confident, while she points to confidence as a costume she had to learn to wear. The phrase “this very cool, amazing person that I wanted to be” reveals the real antagonist - not other people, but an internal casting director with impossible standards. “Cool” and “amazing” are deliberately adolescent words, the kind you’d use before you have the adult vocabulary for self-worth. She’s signaling how early the pressure to be legible, impressive, and socially effortless sets in.
In a celebrity culture that rewards curated self-mythology, Mortimer opts for a messier truth: ambition doesn’t always arrive as swagger. Sometimes it arrives as fear of being ordinary, and the work becomes building a self you can stand behind in a room full of strangers.
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Mortimer, Emily. (2026, January 15). I was terribly shy when I was growing up, I really wasn't confident with other people and I think I was always afraid of up or not being this very cool, amazing person that I wanted to be. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-was-terribly-shy-when-i-was-growing-up-i-really-132433/
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Mortimer, Emily. "I was terribly shy when I was growing up, I really wasn't confident with other people and I think I was always afraid of up or not being this very cool, amazing person that I wanted to be." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-was-terribly-shy-when-i-was-growing-up-i-really-132433/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I was terribly shy when I was growing up, I really wasn't confident with other people and I think I was always afraid of up or not being this very cool, amazing person that I wanted to be." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-was-terribly-shy-when-i-was-growing-up-i-really-132433/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.




