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"I was totally devastated for four years in the mid '60s when l tried to buck the tide"

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Totally devastated is a blunt, almost adolescent phrase, and that is exactly why it lands: it refuses to dignify the pain with poetry. Tommy Rettig is talking like someone who got chewed up by a cultural machine and still doesn’t have the language for it beyond the rawest emotional register. Coming from a former child actor, the line carries an extra sting. Fame arrives early, identity gets outsourced, and then adulthood shows up demanding you perform a different self with the same smile.

The mid-60s context matters because the tide he tried to buck wasn’t just personal momentum; it was a historical riptide. Hollywood’s studio-era certainties were collapsing, youth culture was hardening into an industry, and “reinvention” became a requirement rather than a choice. Buck the tide reads as both an individual act of will and a quiet accusation: the world moved in one direction, and he paid the price for not moving with it. That’s the subtext of a lot of post-child-star testimony: you’re praised for being special, then punished for not being adaptable.

Four years is an oddly specific unit of suffering, long enough to feel like a sentence. The line compresses a whole era of professional rejection, psychological whiplash, and maybe addiction-adjacent despair into a single, tidy recollection. It’s not nostalgia; it’s a warning about what happens when the culture demands constant motion and calls resistance “failure.”

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Rettig, Tommy. (2026, January 16). I was totally devastated for four years in the mid '60s when l tried to buck the tide. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-was-totally-devastated-for-four-years-in-the-84774/

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Rettig, Tommy. "I was totally devastated for four years in the mid '60s when l tried to buck the tide." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-was-totally-devastated-for-four-years-in-the-84774/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I was totally devastated for four years in the mid '60s when l tried to buck the tide." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-was-totally-devastated-for-four-years-in-the-84774/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Tommy Rettig

Tommy Rettig (December 10, 1941 - February 15, 1996) was a Actor from USA.

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