"I was very lucky. My parents raised me in such a way that it never occurred to me that I wasn't equal"
About this Quote
The most revealing phrase is "it never occurred to me". Equality is described as an unselfconscious assumption, not a hard-won conclusion. That matters because so much of sexism works by colonizing imagination early: teaching girls to pre-edit themselves, to anticipate dismissal, to treat ambition as a negotiation. Principal points to a different origin story, where the inner censor never gets installed. The subtext is almost radical in its simplicity: if you can raise someone to expect equal footing, they walk into rooms differently, they take up space, they hear "no" as an obstacle rather than a verdict.
Coming from an actress whose career unfolded in an industry famous for ranking women by youth, beauty, and pliability, the quote doubles as a survival note. She doesn't romanticize the system; she highlights the protective armor of upbringing. It's also a gentle indictment: if equality can be made to feel natural in a household, why does the outside world work so hard to make it feel presumptuous?
Quote Details
| Topic | Equality |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Principal, Victoria. (2026, January 15). I was very lucky. My parents raised me in such a way that it never occurred to me that I wasn't equal. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-was-very-lucky-my-parents-raised-me-in-such-a-145497/
Chicago Style
Principal, Victoria. "I was very lucky. My parents raised me in such a way that it never occurred to me that I wasn't equal." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-was-very-lucky-my-parents-raised-me-in-such-a-145497/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I was very lucky. My parents raised me in such a way that it never occurred to me that I wasn't equal." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-was-very-lucky-my-parents-raised-me-in-such-a-145497/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.


