"I was writing, and I have three kids. I was occupying my time with them, but it was difficult"
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The line also refuses melodrama. "I was occupying my time with them" sounds almost like an apology, as if care is something that needs explaining in the same breath as art. That small rhetorical imbalance reveals the pressure mothers feel to justify both sides: to prove devotion at home while still being legible as serious creators. "It was difficult" lands with the weary understatement of someone who knows that if she lists the specifics - interruptions, exhaustion, guilt, the industry's assumptions - the conversation will get dismissed as domestic trivia.
Contextually, Moyet came up in an era that packaged female voices as products and left little room for the backstage realities of making a career sustainable. Her phrasing pushes back against the idea that songs arrive fully formed; they are built inside ordinary life, sometimes against it. The intent is almost managerial: here is the constraint, here is the cost. The subtext is sharper: the work didnt get harder because the muse left; it got harder because society still treats childrearing as a private obstacle rather than a shared infrastructure.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Moyet, Alison. (2026, February 17). I was writing, and I have three kids. I was occupying my time with them, but it was difficult. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-was-writing-and-i-have-three-kids-i-was-120237/
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Moyet, Alison. "I was writing, and I have three kids. I was occupying my time with them, but it was difficult." FixQuotes. February 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-was-writing-and-i-have-three-kids-i-was-120237/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I was writing, and I have three kids. I was occupying my time with them, but it was difficult." FixQuotes, 17 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-was-writing-and-i-have-three-kids-i-was-120237/. Accessed 18 Feb. 2026.





