"I wasn’t my completely free self. Even though I was in search of myself, I was still afraid to be completely my full self"
About this Quote
The repetition of "self" matters. It turns identity into something layered rather than fixed: the self you perform, the self you are looking for, the self you still withhold. Brown's phrasing also refuses the fantasy that searching for yourself automatically makes you brave. You can be deeply intentional about growth and still be scared. That honesty is why the quote lands. It strips away the influencer-era pressure to present transformation as instant, confident, and aesthetically tidy.
In Brown's larger cultural context, the line resonates because she has built a public persona around warmth, candor, and emotional permission. Her appeal is not just that she seems genuine; it is that she makes genuineness sound like labor. The subtext is that becoming "fully" yourself often means risking disappointment, judgment, or even the collapse of versions of you that once kept you safe. Brown frames that fear without shame. That is the real power here: she makes incompleteness feel not like failure, but like evidence that the work of becoming is actually real.
Quote Details
| Topic | Confidence |
|---|---|
| Source | ESSENCE interview, Tabitha Brown Wants You To Do Something New For 30 Days, updated January 29, 2024 |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Brown, Tabitha. (2026, March 12). I wasn’t my completely free self. Even though I was in search of myself, I was still afraid to be completely my full self. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-wasnt-my-completely-free-self-even-though-i-was-186059/
Chicago Style
Brown, Tabitha. "I wasn’t my completely free self. Even though I was in search of myself, I was still afraid to be completely my full self." FixQuotes. March 12, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-wasnt-my-completely-free-self-even-though-i-was-186059/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I wasn’t my completely free self. Even though I was in search of myself, I was still afraid to be completely my full self." FixQuotes, 12 Mar. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-wasnt-my-completely-free-self-even-though-i-was-186059/. Accessed 12 Mar. 2026.











