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Life & Wisdom Quote by Charles Bukowski

"I went to the bathroom and threw some water on my face, combed my hair. If I could only comb that face, I thought, but I can't"

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Bukowski turns a throwaway bathroom moment into a miniature tragedy of the self. The sentence starts with the deadpan choreography of getting it together: water, comb, the small rituals people use to pass as functional. Then he pivots on a single, brutal joke: hair can be disciplined; a face can only be endured. It lands because it’s funny in the way despair often is funny when you’ve stared at it long enough to recognize its routine.

The intent isn’t vanity, it’s fatalism. “Combed my hair” suggests control, presentation, the tiny lie of improvement. “If I could only comb that face” exposes how shallow those fixes are when the problem is not appearance but identity: the face as the hard evidence of who you are, what you’ve lived through, what you can’t talk your way out of. Bukowski’s narrators are rarely interested in redemption arcs. They’re interested in the humiliations that keep happening even when you try to clean up.

Subtext: self-loathing without melodrama. He doesn’t say “I hated myself”. He lets the thought slip out mid-grooming, like it’s as ordinary as running water. That casualness is the point: the wound is chronic.

Contextually, it’s Bukowski’s signature working-class existentialism, written from the aftertaste of hangovers, low-wage rooms, and the suspicion that reinvention is mostly a privilege. The bathroom mirror becomes a courtroom. You can straighten the hair for the world; the face hands down the verdict.

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Bukowski, Charles. (2026, February 10). I went to the bathroom and threw some water on my face, combed my hair. If I could only comb that face, I thought, but I can't. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-went-to-the-bathroom-and-threw-some-water-on-my-185229/

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Bukowski, Charles. "I went to the bathroom and threw some water on my face, combed my hair. If I could only comb that face, I thought, but I can't." FixQuotes. February 10, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-went-to-the-bathroom-and-threw-some-water-on-my-185229/.

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"I went to the bathroom and threw some water on my face, combed my hair. If I could only comb that face, I thought, but I can't." FixQuotes, 10 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-went-to-the-bathroom-and-threw-some-water-on-my-185229/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Charles Bukowski

Charles Bukowski (August 16, 1920 - March 9, 1994) was a Poet from USA.

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