"I went to work and did a lot of homework about what was wrong with me"
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The subtext is also a quiet rebellion against the way women in public life are encouraged to narrate pain: either as scandal (the “messy” celebrity) or as inspiration (the triumphant comeback). Kidder’s line splits the difference. She admits fracture without inviting voyeurism. “Homework” implies humility and discipline, not confession. It suggests she’s reclaiming authorship over her story by becoming a student of it, instead of a tabloid subject.
Context matters because Kidder’s life was repeatedly filtered through an icon: Lois Lane, the competent, fearless woman who always knows the right question to ask. Here, Kidder turns that investigative energy inward. The intent isn’t self-blame; it’s agency. She’s saying: I wasn’t a headline, I was a person doing the work - and the work, like homework, is ongoing, sometimes tedious, sometimes lonely, and still worth doing.
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| Topic | Self-Improvement |
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Kidder, Margot. (2026, January 17). I went to work and did a lot of homework about what was wrong with me. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-went-to-work-and-did-a-lot-of-homework-about-77866/
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Kidder, Margot. "I went to work and did a lot of homework about what was wrong with me." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-went-to-work-and-did-a-lot-of-homework-about-77866/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I went to work and did a lot of homework about what was wrong with me." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-went-to-work-and-did-a-lot-of-homework-about-77866/. Accessed 9 Feb. 2026.



