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Daily Inspiration Quote by Denis Leary

"I will not bond. I will not share. I refuse to nurture"

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A three-sentence tantrum that doubles as a mission statement. Leary’s “I will not bond. I will not share. I refuse to nurture” is built like stand-up: short beats, escalating stakes, each line landing harder because it’s pared down to the bluntest verb possible. “Bond” is the softest, most socialized demand; “share” is the kindergarten moral; “nurture” is the big one, the thing you’re supposed to graduate into as an adult. He’s not just rejecting intimacy, he’s rejecting the entire emotional curriculum.

The intent reads as defensive theater. Leary’s comic persona often weaponizes irritation as authenticity, turning what sounds like cruelty into a claim of honesty. The subtext is fear of obligation, dressed up as principle: if you announce you’re incapable of caring, you can’t be blamed for failing to show up. It’s preemptive absolution, delivered with a swagger that dares you to argue.

Context matters because Leary comes out of a late-80s/90s strain of pop masculinity where detachment was treated as an identity, not a symptom. His characters and bits frequently mock self-help language, sincerity, and domestication, pitching emotional minimalism as a kind of freedom. The line plays like a caricature of the “anti-family values” bogeyman, but that’s the point: exaggeration makes the taboo speakable, and laughter turns refusal into a social transaction. Even as he declares he won’t share, he’s sharing the joke - and the anxiety underneath it.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Leary, Denis. (2026, January 16). I will not bond. I will not share. I refuse to nurture. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-will-not-bond-i-will-not-share-i-refuse-to-130899/

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Leary, Denis. "I will not bond. I will not share. I refuse to nurture." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-will-not-bond-i-will-not-share-i-refuse-to-130899/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I will not bond. I will not share. I refuse to nurture." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-will-not-bond-i-will-not-share-i-refuse-to-130899/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Denis Leary (born August 18, 1957) is a Actor from USA.

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