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Love Quote by Charles Bukowski

"I will remember the kisses, our lips raw with love, and how you gave me everything you had and how I offered you what was left of me"

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Bukowski makes romance sound like a bar fight you don’t regret. The line opens on “kisses” but immediately undercuts any soft-focus sentimentality with “our lips raw”, turning tenderness into abrasion. That’s his signature move: take a culturally polished idea (love as healing) and insist on its physical cost. “Raw with love” suggests pleasure, damage, and proof all at once, like the body is the only honest ledger.

The intent isn’t to celebrate a perfect union; it’s to document a transaction at the edge of depletion. “You gave me everything you had” is devotion, but it’s also a warning: everything is not a sustainable currency. Then comes the crueler, more Bukowskian admission: “I offered you what was left of me”. The subtext is asymmetry. One person arrives with fullness, the other with residue. That imbalance carries a kind of shame, but also a blunt integrity: he refuses the romantic lie that love makes you whole when you’re already running on fumes.

Context matters because Bukowski’s persona is built from working-class scarcity, alcoholism, and the wreckage of intimacy. In that world, love isn’t an upgrade to life; it’s something you attempt while already half-broken. The sentence’s piling structure - “and... and... and...” - mimics memory spiraling, a confession that can’t stop itself. It works because it refuses to moralize. It just reports the heat, the damage, the mutual giving, and the terrible arithmetic of what people bring to each other when they’re near empty.

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TopicLove
SourceCharles Bukowski, “Raw With Love”
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Bukowski, Charles. (2026, February 10). I will remember the kisses, our lips raw with love, and how you gave me everything you had and how I offered you what was left of me. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-will-remember-the-kisses-our-lips-raw-with-love-185191/

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Bukowski, Charles. "I will remember the kisses, our lips raw with love, and how you gave me everything you had and how I offered you what was left of me." FixQuotes. February 10, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-will-remember-the-kisses-our-lips-raw-with-love-185191/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I will remember the kisses, our lips raw with love, and how you gave me everything you had and how I offered you what was left of me." FixQuotes, 10 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-will-remember-the-kisses-our-lips-raw-with-love-185191/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Charles Bukowski

Charles Bukowski (August 16, 1920 - March 9, 1994) was a Poet from USA.

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