"I will tell you King's First Law of Recognition: You never get it when you want it, and then when it comes, you get too much"
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Then she flips it: “when it comes, you get too much.” That’s the part people outside sports often miss. Recognition doesn’t arrive as a polite handshake; it arrives as a flood. You become a symbol, a headline, a lesson. Your private self gets drafted into public service. For King, that subtext is sharpened by her history: a champion who wasn’t just winning matches but publicly renegotiating what women athletes were worth, then later navigating the scrutiny and backlash around her sexuality. In that context, “too much” isn’t just media saturation; it’s the way attention demands a simplified version of you.
Calling it a “law” is her athlete’s pragmatism: not a complaint, a scouting report. Plan accordingly. Chase mastery and leverage recognition when it shows up, but don’t confuse it with justice, or think you can schedule it like a tournament.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
King, Billie Jean. (2026, January 16). I will tell you King's First Law of Recognition: You never get it when you want it, and then when it comes, you get too much. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-will-tell-you-kings-first-law-of-recognition-139501/
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King, Billie Jean. "I will tell you King's First Law of Recognition: You never get it when you want it, and then when it comes, you get too much." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-will-tell-you-kings-first-law-of-recognition-139501/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I will tell you King's First Law of Recognition: You never get it when you want it, and then when it comes, you get too much." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-will-tell-you-kings-first-law-of-recognition-139501/. Accessed 8 Feb. 2026.










