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Motherhood Quote by Mary J. Blige

"I wish I had an extra day with my mom sometimes. Or another hour in the day with my family, husband and children"

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Longing is doing double duty here: it reads like a tender family confession, but it also smuggles in a critique of the life that makes that longing so constant. Mary J. Blige isn’t romanticizing “quality time” as a lifestyle slogan; she’s naming time as a scarce resource, one she can’t buy back no matter how successful she is. The specificity matters. “An extra day with my mom” hits differently than the generic “I miss my mom” because it frames love as unfinished business, the kind of relationship you keep revisiting in your head even when nothing is technically wrong. It’s an emotional IOU.

Then she widens the aperture: “another hour in the day with my family, husband and children.” That pivot signals the real tension: her life contains multiple, competing intimacies. There’s the origin story (mom), and there’s the life she’s built (partner, kids). The subtext is a familiar celebrity paradox - being publicly everywhere can mean privately nowhere. An “hour” is a brutally modest ask, which is precisely why it lands. She’s not pleading for a vacation; she’s admitting that the daily structure of work, travel, and obligation shaves down the people she loves into leftovers.

Blige’s cultural context sharpens it. Her music has long been about endurance, emotional labor, and self-repair. This line feels like the quieter sequel to that narrative: what happens after survival, when the cost is measured not in headlines but in missing time. The wish is simple; the ache is logistical.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Blige, Mary J. (2026, January 16). I wish I had an extra day with my mom sometimes. Or another hour in the day with my family, husband and children. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-wish-i-had-an-extra-day-with-my-mom-sometimes-95679/

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Blige, Mary J. "I wish I had an extra day with my mom sometimes. Or another hour in the day with my family, husband and children." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-wish-i-had-an-extra-day-with-my-mom-sometimes-95679/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I wish I had an extra day with my mom sometimes. Or another hour in the day with my family, husband and children." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-wish-i-had-an-extra-day-with-my-mom-sometimes-95679/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Mary J. Blige (born January 11, 1971) is a Musician from USA.

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