"I wish they would only take me as I am"
About this Quote
The intent is disarmingly plain, which is why it hits. Van Gogh frames acceptance as something others grant or withhold, placing the power outside himself. That choice matters: it reveals a life lived under judgment - by family, patrons, critics, doctors, and friends - where the self becomes a case file to be managed. The subtext is not just loneliness, but the specific loneliness of being treated as a problem to solve. When he says take me, he means in the full, bodily sense: take my moods, my intensity, my awkwardness, my poverty, my neediness, my brilliance, my shame. The sentence refuses the neat moral of the tortured-genius myth. It is not romantic suffering. Its an everyday request for room.
Context sharpens it further. Van Gogh spent years moving between dependence and rupture, craving connection while repeatedly losing it, and cycling through precarious mental health. Read against the posthumous story we tell - the sainted martyr of modern art - the quote punctures the halo. It reminds you that for him, the stakes werent legacy. The stakes were dinner, friendship, stability, a letter answered with warmth. The line works because it refuses drama while exposing the cost of being perpetually appraised. It asks for acceptance without performance, an intimacy without conditions - and it makes you feel how rare that was for him.
Quote Details
| Topic | Self-Love |
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| Source | Help us find the source |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Gogh, Vincent Van. (2026, January 18). I wish they would only take me as I am. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-wish-they-would-only-take-me-as-i-am-16268/
Chicago Style
Gogh, Vincent Van. "I wish they would only take me as I am." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-wish-they-would-only-take-me-as-i-am-16268/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I wish they would only take me as I am." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-wish-they-would-only-take-me-as-i-am-16268/. Accessed 10 Feb. 2026.









