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"I wish thy lot, now bad, still worse, my friend, for when at worst, they say, things always mend"

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A curse disguised as a proverb: Owen turns consolation into cruelty by pushing his “friend” toward the cliff edge, then pretending it’s for their own good. The line works because it borrows the voice of folk wisdom - “when at worst…things always mend” - and weaponizes it. Owen’s wish is not merely that someone suffer, but that they suffer efficiently, accelerated toward the point where improvement becomes inevitable. It’s a nasty little syllogism: if rock bottom triggers recovery, then let’s get to rock bottom faster.

That logic exposes the moral hazard baked into easy optimism. The saying “things always mend” sounds humane, even pious, but it can smuggle in passivity: endure enough misery and providence will do the rest. Owen flips it into a taunt, forcing the listener to hear how callous that faith-in-the-curve can sound when applied to a real person’s pain. The “they say” matters, too: he distances himself, as if he’s only following public reason, not personal malice. It’s the rhetorical equivalent of shrugging while tightening the screws.

Context sharpens the edge. Owen was a severe, high-minded Puritan divine, writing in a 17th-century England obsessed with affliction as spiritual schooling. Hardship wasn’t just unfortunate; it was legible, potentially sanctifying. This line plays in that register, but with a satirical twist: if suffering is the engine of improvement, the engine can be over-revved. Providence becomes a loophole for spite, and the audience is left to question whether the comfort we offer is compassion - or simply a culturally approved way to stop caring.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Owen, John. (2026, January 18). I wish thy lot, now bad, still worse, my friend, for when at worst, they say, things always mend. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-wish-thy-lot-now-bad-still-worse-my-friend-for-9418/

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Owen, John. "I wish thy lot, now bad, still worse, my friend, for when at worst, they say, things always mend." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-wish-thy-lot-now-bad-still-worse-my-friend-for-9418/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I wish thy lot, now bad, still worse, my friend, for when at worst, they say, things always mend." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-wish-thy-lot-now-bad-still-worse-my-friend-for-9418/. Accessed 25 Feb. 2026.

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John Owen (1616 AC - 1683 AC) was a Theologian from England.

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