"I wish thy lot, now bad, still worse, my friend, for when at worst, they say, things always mend"
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That logic exposes the moral hazard baked into easy optimism. The saying “things always mend” sounds humane, even pious, but it can smuggle in passivity: endure enough misery and providence will do the rest. Owen flips it into a taunt, forcing the listener to hear how callous that faith-in-the-curve can sound when applied to a real person’s pain. The “they say” matters, too: he distances himself, as if he’s only following public reason, not personal malice. It’s the rhetorical equivalent of shrugging while tightening the screws.
Context sharpens the edge. Owen was a severe, high-minded Puritan divine, writing in a 17th-century England obsessed with affliction as spiritual schooling. Hardship wasn’t just unfortunate; it was legible, potentially sanctifying. This line plays in that register, but with a satirical twist: if suffering is the engine of improvement, the engine can be over-revved. Providence becomes a loophole for spite, and the audience is left to question whether the comfort we offer is compassion - or simply a culturally approved way to stop caring.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Owen, John. (2026, January 18). I wish thy lot, now bad, still worse, my friend, for when at worst, they say, things always mend. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-wish-thy-lot-now-bad-still-worse-my-friend-for-9418/
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Owen, John. "I wish thy lot, now bad, still worse, my friend, for when at worst, they say, things always mend." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-wish-thy-lot-now-bad-still-worse-my-friend-for-9418/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I wish thy lot, now bad, still worse, my friend, for when at worst, they say, things always mend." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-wish-thy-lot-now-bad-still-worse-my-friend-for-9418/. Accessed 25 Feb. 2026.










