"I wish we lived in a society that made it safe and provided the courage for everyone to come out"
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“Safe” points to material conditions: job security, family acceptance, legal protections, physical safety, health care, the everyday freedom to be unremarkable. “Provided the courage” is the sharper phrase, because societies don’t literally hand out courage; they create climates that manufacture it or suppress it. Light’s subtext is that courage is frequently a tax extracted by hostile environments. When institutions stop punishing honesty, what we call courage starts looking a lot like normal life.
As an actress, she’s also speaking from an industry that’s historically monetized queerness on-screen while punishing it off-screen. Hollywood long ran on the closet as both a management tool and a marketing strategy, rewarding ambiguity and punishing disclosure. Light, who became a prominent public ally during the AIDS crisis and beyond, is invoking that legacy: the closet wasn’t a personal quirk, it was a system.
The intent is collective, not confessional. She isn’t demanding that everyone come out as a moral performance; she’s imagining a world where coming out isn’t a leap. The line works because it shifts responsibility away from the individual and back onto the society that set the trap.
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| Topic | Equality |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Light, Judith. (2026, January 16). I wish we lived in a society that made it safe and provided the courage for everyone to come out. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-wish-we-lived-in-a-society-that-made-it-safe-126592/
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Light, Judith. "I wish we lived in a society that made it safe and provided the courage for everyone to come out." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-wish-we-lived-in-a-society-that-made-it-safe-126592/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I wish we lived in a society that made it safe and provided the courage for everyone to come out." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-wish-we-lived-in-a-society-that-made-it-safe-126592/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.












