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Wit & Attitude Quote by Cher

"I would have gone home to my mother, but I'm not that crazy about my mother"

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A comedian’s shrug disguised as a confession, Cher’s line takes the sentimental script about “going home” and flips it into a punchline that lands because it refuses to perform the expected devotion. The setup sounds like a classic refuge fantasy: life gets messy, so you retreat to the safest place you can imagine. Then she yanks the safety net away. The joke isn’t simply that she has mother issues; it’s that the culture assumes you’re supposed to have none.

The intent is mischievous self-definition. Cher, a pop figure who built a persona on bluntness and survival, uses a taboo admission to signal autonomy: she won’t pretend her family ties are automatically sacred just because tradition says they are. The subtext is harder than the laugh suggests: “home” can be complicated, and the myth of unconditional maternal warmth often papers over real ambivalence, distance, or harm. By saying it out loud, she gives listeners permission to feel less guilty about not matching the Hallmark version of kinship.

Context matters: Cher’s celebrity has long been intertwined with reinvention, escape, and a refusal to be managed, whether by men, executives, or norms. In that light, “mother” becomes a stand-in for every origin story you’re expected to honor. She makes the break sound casual because that’s the power move. Humor turns potential scandal into an assertion of control: if you can laugh at the sacred cow, you’re no longer owned by it.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Cher. (2026, January 17). I would have gone home to my mother, but I'm not that crazy about my mother. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-would-have-gone-home-to-my-mother-but-im-not-49926/

Chicago Style
Cher. "I would have gone home to my mother, but I'm not that crazy about my mother." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-would-have-gone-home-to-my-mother-but-im-not-49926/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I would have gone home to my mother, but I'm not that crazy about my mother." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-would-have-gone-home-to-my-mother-but-im-not-49926/. Accessed 7 Feb. 2026.

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Cher (born May 20, 1946) is a Musician from USA.

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