"I would kiss you, had I the courage"
About this Quote
The subtext is less about love than about risk: social, sexual, reputational. Manet spent his career taking public swings at bourgeois comfort, then absorbing the backlash. That’s why the quote lands with an almost painful irony: the man who scandalized Paris with Olympia frames intimacy as the truly dangerous act. Public provocation, private hesitation. It’s a small sentence that implies a whole economy of consequences: who is being addressed, what power dynamics are in play, what gets lost if the desire becomes real.
It also reads like an artist’s problem disguised as a lover’s. To kiss would collapse distance; distance is where looking happens. Manet’s modernity often comes from friction between closeness and detachment, the body offered and withheld at once. Here, the withheld part is his own. The courage he lacks isn’t just to touch, but to be changed by touch.
Quote Details
| Topic | Romantic |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Manet, Edouard. (2026, January 17). I would kiss you, had I the courage. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-would-kiss-you-had-i-the-courage-78186/
Chicago Style
Manet, Edouard. "I would kiss you, had I the courage." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-would-kiss-you-had-i-the-courage-78186/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I would kiss you, had I the courage." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-would-kiss-you-had-i-the-courage-78186/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.








