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Love & Passion Quote by Edouard Manet

"I would kiss you, had I the courage"

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A painter famous for looking without flinching suddenly admits he can’t act. “I would kiss you, had I the courage” is Manet turning the gaze inward: desire is present, vivid, practically staged in the conditional tense, yet blocked by something more tyrannical than prudishness. The line doesn’t romanticize restraint; it confesses to it. “Would” makes the kiss feel already imagined, rehearsed, almost painted. “Had I” makes courage sound like a missing pigment, the one color he can’t mix.

The subtext is less about love than about risk: social, sexual, reputational. Manet spent his career taking public swings at bourgeois comfort, then absorbing the backlash. That’s why the quote lands with an almost painful irony: the man who scandalized Paris with Olympia frames intimacy as the truly dangerous act. Public provocation, private hesitation. It’s a small sentence that implies a whole economy of consequences: who is being addressed, what power dynamics are in play, what gets lost if the desire becomes real.

It also reads like an artist’s problem disguised as a lover’s. To kiss would collapse distance; distance is where looking happens. Manet’s modernity often comes from friction between closeness and detachment, the body offered and withheld at once. Here, the withheld part is his own. The courage he lacks isn’t just to touch, but to be changed by touch.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Manet, Edouard. (2026, January 17). I would kiss you, had I the courage. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-would-kiss-you-had-i-the-courage-78186/

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Manet, Edouard. "I would kiss you, had I the courage." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-would-kiss-you-had-i-the-courage-78186/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I would kiss you, had I the courage." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-would-kiss-you-had-i-the-courage-78186/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Edouard Manet (January 23, 1832 - April 30, 1883) was a Artist from France.

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