Skip to main content

Parenting & Family Quote by Caroline Corr

"I would like not only to have a successful band, but I want to have children, a home, and a husband. Two or three. Children, not husbands!!!"

About this Quote

Ambition, here, isn’t a sleek corporate mantra; it’s messy, domestic, and unapologetically funny. Caroline Corr starts with a perfectly legible wish list - successful band, kids, a home, a husband - then detonates it with that last-second correction: “Two or three. Children, not husbands!!!” The joke lands because it exposes the double bind she’s navigating. A male musician can talk about career longevity without being asked when he’ll “settle down.” A woman who names both art and family gets treated like she’s drafting a contract with the public.

The specific intent feels twofold: to assert she wants it all, and to refuse the punitive framing that wanting it all is naive, greedy, or incompatible. The punchline is a pressure-release valve, but it also works as a critique. By “accidentally” multiplying husbands, she mirrors the way audiences and interviewers often mishear women’s plans, turning ordinary desire into scandal or spectacle. Her emphatic “Children, not husbands!!!” reinscribes control over the narrative: she’s not auditioning for respectability, and she’s not asking permission to be multifaceted.

Context matters: Corr emerged in a pop culture era that loved packaging female performers as either career women or romantic figures, not both at once. Her quip weaponizes that packaging. It’s self-aware, playful, and pointed - a reminder that behind the sheen of a “successful band” is a person negotiating time, identity, and the expectation that women must choose a single story to be taken seriously.

Quote Details

TopicFamily
SourceHelp us find the source
Cite

Citation Formats

APA Style (7th ed.)
Corr, Caroline. (2026, January 17). I would like not only to have a successful band, but I want to have children, a home, and a husband. Two or three. Children, not husbands!!! FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-would-like-not-only-to-have-a-successful-band-49050/

Chicago Style
Corr, Caroline. "I would like not only to have a successful band, but I want to have children, a home, and a husband. Two or three. Children, not husbands!!!" FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-would-like-not-only-to-have-a-successful-band-49050/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I would like not only to have a successful band, but I want to have children, a home, and a husband. Two or three. Children, not husbands!!!" FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-would-like-not-only-to-have-a-successful-band-49050/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

More Quotes by Caroline Add to List
Caroline Corr quote on balancing band, family
Click to enlarge Portrait | Landscape

About the Author

Ireland Flag

Caroline Corr (born March 17, 1973) is a Musician from Ireland.

29 more quotes available

View Profile

Similar Quotes