"I would not send a poor girl into the world, ignorant of the snares that beset her path; nor would I watch and guard her, till, deprived of self-respect and self-reliance, she lost the power or the will to watch and guard herself "
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The phrasing is doing more than moralizing. "Watch and guard" repeats like a mantra, first as the guardian's duty, then as the girl's rightful capacity. The pivot is devastating: guarding her too closely "deprived of self-respect and self-reliance", until she "lost the power or the will" to protect herself. Bronte isn't only warning about danger; she's diagnosing how protection becomes training for helplessness. It reads like a rebuke to paternalistic caretaking - family, church, and polite society - that demanded feminine purity while denying women the tools to navigate the very threats men and institutions created.
Contextually, this fits Anne Bronte's unsentimental realism: she writes from a culture that prized innocence in women and punished them for the consequences of men's behavior. The intent is practical, almost reformist: knowledge and autonomy are not luxuries but survival equipment. The subtext is sharper: a system that insists on guarding women is often the same system setting the snares.
Quote Details
| Topic | Confidence |
|---|---|
| Source | Anne Brontë, The Tenant of Wildfell Hall (1848). (Passage appears in Helen Huntingdon's narrative addressing the moral education of women.) |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Bronte, Anne. (2026, January 15). I would not send a poor girl into the world, ignorant of the snares that beset her path; nor would I watch and guard her, till, deprived of self-respect and self-reliance, she lost the power or the will to watch and guard herself . FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-would-not-send-a-poor-girl-into-the-world-157735/
Chicago Style
Bronte, Anne. "I would not send a poor girl into the world, ignorant of the snares that beset her path; nor would I watch and guard her, till, deprived of self-respect and self-reliance, she lost the power or the will to watch and guard herself ." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-would-not-send-a-poor-girl-into-the-world-157735/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I would not send a poor girl into the world, ignorant of the snares that beset her path; nor would I watch and guard her, till, deprived of self-respect and self-reliance, she lost the power or the will to watch and guard herself ." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-would-not-send-a-poor-girl-into-the-world-157735/. Accessed 9 Feb. 2026.






