"I would rather be honest and hated than dishonest and loved"
About this Quote
The intent is blunt: pick integrity over reputation. The subtext is sharper. He’s acknowledging that “being loved” often requires a kind of performance - not onstage, but in life: sanding down your edges, editing your testimony, keeping the brand clean, keeping the family story sanitized, keeping the faith palatable. Franklin’s insistence on honesty is a refusal of that bargain, especially in a genre where people want the messenger to embody the message flawlessly. He’s not promising sainthood; he’s demanding room to be real.
What makes it work is the asymmetry baked into the trade-off. “Dishonest and loved” isn’t just moral failure; it implies love obtained under false pretenses, which turns affection into something transactional. “Honest and hated” accepts the social penalty as proof of sincerity. It’s a line that doubles as a warning to fans: if you only love the curated version, you don’t actually love me.
Quote Details
| Topic | Honesty & Integrity |
|---|---|
| Source | Kirk Franklin interview on The Breakfast Club (Power 105.1), March 18, 2019 |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Franklin, Kirk. (2026, January 30). I would rather be honest and hated than dishonest and loved. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-would-rather-be-honest-and-hated-than-dishonest-184830/
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Franklin, Kirk. "I would rather be honest and hated than dishonest and loved." FixQuotes. January 30, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-would-rather-be-honest-and-hated-than-dishonest-184830/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I would rather be honest and hated than dishonest and loved." FixQuotes, 30 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-would-rather-be-honest-and-hated-than-dishonest-184830/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.







