"I would rather drudge out my life on a cotton plantation, till the grave opened to give me rest, than to live with an unprincipled master and a jealous mistress"
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Jacobs is writing from a context many abolitionist narratives softened or euphemized to protect white readers’ sensibilities: the sexual coercion enslaved women faced, and the way white women were often folded into that system, not merely as bystanders but as enforcers of it. “Unprincipled” is almost wry in its restraint; it’s a small word doing heavy work, implying a man whose authority is already sanctioned by law, now made worse by appetite and impunity. The “jealous mistress” exposes the perverse emotional economy of slavery: a white woman displaced her rage downward, punishing the enslaved woman her husband targets rather than the husband who holds the power.
The sentence’s engine is choice. Jacobs stages a preference to insist on her interior life: she can weigh, judge, refuse. That’s the subtextual rebellion. She also quietly indicts a society that makes the grave sound like relief, not tragedy. The line works because it refuses sentimental suffering and instead offers a terrifyingly practical calculus of survival under gendered bondage.
Quote Details
| Topic | Freedom |
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| Source | Harriet A. Jacobs, Incidents in the Life of a Slave Girl (1861). Autobiographical narrative contains the cited passage. |
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Jacobs, Harriet Ann. (2026, January 17). I would rather drudge out my life on a cotton plantation, till the grave opened to give me rest, than to live with an unprincipled master and a jealous mistress. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-would-rather-drudge-out-my-life-on-a-cotton-62669/
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Jacobs, Harriet Ann. "I would rather drudge out my life on a cotton plantation, till the grave opened to give me rest, than to live with an unprincipled master and a jealous mistress." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-would-rather-drudge-out-my-life-on-a-cotton-62669/.
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"I would rather drudge out my life on a cotton plantation, till the grave opened to give me rest, than to live with an unprincipled master and a jealous mistress." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-would-rather-drudge-out-my-life-on-a-cotton-62669/. Accessed 28 Feb. 2026.








