"I would rather try to persuade a man to go along, because once I have persuaded him, he will stick. If I scare him, he will stay just as long as he is scared, and then he is gone"
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Power that lasts doesn’t sound like a barked order; it sounds like consent. Eisenhower’s line is a coldly practical theory of leadership dressed up as plain talk: fear is a short-term technology, persuasion a durable infrastructure. The genius is the contrast between “stick” and “gone,” verbs that treat loyalty like physics. Coercion produces inertia; persuasion produces buy-in. He isn’t romanticizing democratic niceness so much as describing what actually holds under pressure.
The intent is managerial and strategic. Eisenhower ran the largest military coalition in history before he ran a country, and he learned that you can’t threaten allies into coherence forever. In a democracy, the same math applies to citizens, legislators, bureaucracies, even foreign partners: compliance extracted by intimidation evaporates the moment the intimidator blinks. Persuasion, by comparison, converts the other person into a carrier of the decision. Once “he” has been persuaded, the action becomes partially his, and that ownership is what “sticks.”
The subtext is also a warning about the hidden cost of fear. Scaring people may look like control, but it creates a hostage relationship with a ticking timer. It breeds quiet resistance, brittle institutions, and a leader addicted to escalating threats to keep the system from slipping. Eisenhower’s calm, almost homespun phrasing masks a hard-edged realism: legitimacy is the only force you don’t have to constantly reload.
The intent is managerial and strategic. Eisenhower ran the largest military coalition in history before he ran a country, and he learned that you can’t threaten allies into coherence forever. In a democracy, the same math applies to citizens, legislators, bureaucracies, even foreign partners: compliance extracted by intimidation evaporates the moment the intimidator blinks. Persuasion, by comparison, converts the other person into a carrier of the decision. Once “he” has been persuaded, the action becomes partially his, and that ownership is what “sticks.”
The subtext is also a warning about the hidden cost of fear. Scaring people may look like control, but it creates a hostage relationship with a ticking timer. It breeds quiet resistance, brittle institutions, and a leader addicted to escalating threats to keep the system from slipping. Eisenhower’s calm, almost homespun phrasing masks a hard-edged realism: legitimacy is the only force you don’t have to constantly reload.
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