"I would recommend it to everybody, every now and again you just put a dress on, see what it feels like, because it's, it's interesting. A whole complex series of thoughts and feelings assail you as you look at yourself"
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The subtext is cultural: gender is not just identity, it’s choreography. A dress is coded so heavily that wearing one becomes an experiment in social physics. You’re suddenly aware of posture, vulnerability, beauty standards, ridicule, desire, permission. Wilkinson’s phrasing—“every now and again”—tries to normalize the act, as if cross-gender clothing could be a routine diagnostic, like checking your blood pressure. That casualness is the point: he treats gendered presentation as a tool for self-knowledge rather than a transgressive confession.
Contextually, it fits an actor’s lifelong dependence on empathy by embodiment. Acting trains you to inhabit roles, but Wilkinson nudges the audience toward a simpler rehearsal: try on the symbols society hands out and notice what they do to you. The “interesting” part is understated, almost sly; what he’s really describing is how quickly the self becomes a performance when the costume changes.
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Wilkinson, Tom. (2026, February 17). I would recommend it to everybody, every now and again you just put a dress on, see what it feels like, because it's, it's interesting. A whole complex series of thoughts and feelings assail you as you look at yourself. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-would-recommend-it-to-everybody-every-now-and-124371/
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Wilkinson, Tom. "I would recommend it to everybody, every now and again you just put a dress on, see what it feels like, because it's, it's interesting. A whole complex series of thoughts and feelings assail you as you look at yourself." FixQuotes. February 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-would-recommend-it-to-everybody-every-now-and-124371/.
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"I would recommend it to everybody, every now and again you just put a dress on, see what it feels like, because it's, it's interesting. A whole complex series of thoughts and feelings assail you as you look at yourself." FixQuotes, 17 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-would-recommend-it-to-everybody-every-now-and-124371/. Accessed 18 Feb. 2026.








