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Daily Inspiration Quote by Tom Wilkinson

"I would recommend it to everybody, every now and again you just put a dress on, see what it feels like, because it's, it's interesting. A whole complex series of thoughts and feelings assail you as you look at yourself"

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Wilkinson’s invitation to “just put a dress on” lands less like a provocation than a dare to curiosity. Coming from an actor, it reads as craft advice smuggled into a social suggestion: change the costume, and you change the mind. The line isn’t about shock or kink; it’s about the quiet violence of self-perception, the way a single garment can summon an entire bureaucracy of internal voices. “A whole complex series of thoughts and feelings assail you” is doing the real work here. Assail is combative, implying the mirror doesn’t merely reflect but attacks, forcing a reckoning with what you’ve been trained to think is “you.”

The subtext is cultural: gender is not just identity, it’s choreography. A dress is coded so heavily that wearing one becomes an experiment in social physics. You’re suddenly aware of posture, vulnerability, beauty standards, ridicule, desire, permission. Wilkinson’s phrasing—“every now and again”—tries to normalize the act, as if cross-gender clothing could be a routine diagnostic, like checking your blood pressure. That casualness is the point: he treats gendered presentation as a tool for self-knowledge rather than a transgressive confession.

Contextually, it fits an actor’s lifelong dependence on empathy by embodiment. Acting trains you to inhabit roles, but Wilkinson nudges the audience toward a simpler rehearsal: try on the symbols society hands out and notice what they do to you. The “interesting” part is understated, almost sly; what he’s really describing is how quickly the self becomes a performance when the costume changes.

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Wilkinson, Tom. (2026, February 17). I would recommend it to everybody, every now and again you just put a dress on, see what it feels like, because it's, it's interesting. A whole complex series of thoughts and feelings assail you as you look at yourself. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-would-recommend-it-to-everybody-every-now-and-124371/

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Wilkinson, Tom. "I would recommend it to everybody, every now and again you just put a dress on, see what it feels like, because it's, it's interesting. A whole complex series of thoughts and feelings assail you as you look at yourself." FixQuotes. February 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-would-recommend-it-to-everybody-every-now-and-124371/.

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"I would recommend it to everybody, every now and again you just put a dress on, see what it feels like, because it's, it's interesting. A whole complex series of thoughts and feelings assail you as you look at yourself." FixQuotes, 17 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-would-recommend-it-to-everybody-every-now-and-124371/. Accessed 18 Feb. 2026.

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Tom Wilkinson (born December 12, 1948) is a Actor from United Kingdom.

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