"I would say I'm pretty well at ease with my sexuality, but I'm an individual before I am a female"
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Then she pivots: “but I’m an individual before I am a female.” That “before” is the fulcrum. She’s not rejecting womanhood; she’s rejecting being reduced to it. In pop culture, “sexuality” and “female” often function as press-release categories, the boxes an interviewer can tick to explain an artist quickly to an audience. Manson insists on the messier truth: identity isn’t a marketing label, it’s a lived hierarchy of meaning, and she wants authorship over the order.
The subtext is both protective and confrontational. Protective, because it draws a boundary around her private self while still acknowledging desire. Confrontational, because it calls out the lazy essentialism that frames women artists as representatives first and creators second. Coming from a musician who navigated 90s alt-rock’s male gatekeeping and the industry’s appetite for the “dangerous” femme persona, the statement reads like a quiet power move: you can look, you can listen, but you don’t get to define the terms.
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Manson, Shirley. (2026, January 16). I would say I'm pretty well at ease with my sexuality, but I'm an individual before I am a female. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-would-say-im-pretty-well-at-ease-with-my-88109/
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"I would say I'm pretty well at ease with my sexuality, but I'm an individual before I am a female." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-would-say-im-pretty-well-at-ease-with-my-88109/. Accessed 17 Feb. 2026.






