"I would say that if you don't feel like talking to the crowd, something is wrong, and if you force yourself to talk to them, things will happen, and, to that extent, things aren't choreographed"
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Then he flips the common fear. Forcing yourself to talk - the very thing many players dread because it risks awkwardness - becomes a gateway to luck. Things will happen. The phrase is beautifully non-specific, implying the small accidents that make a night memorable: a laugh that loosens your hands, a comment that changes how a song lands, a shout from the room that reshapes pacing, even a mistake that turns into a new arrangement. Kottke is arguing that spontaneity is not the opposite of discipline; its something you can invite through action.
The kicker is his understated swipe at the over-produced show. To that extent things arent choreographed. He is not condemning planning; he is drawing a boundary around what should remain human. Talk is the crack where real time enters. In an era of click tracks, scripted banter, and algorithm-friendly sameness, Kottkes point feels almost radical: authenticity isnt a vibe you project; its the risk you agree to take, out loud, in front of strangers.
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Kottke, Leo. (2026, February 19). I would say that if you don't feel like talking to the crowd, something is wrong, and if you force yourself to talk to them, things will happen, and, to that extent, things aren't choreographed. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-would-say-that-if-you-dont-feel-like-talking-to-54843/
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Kottke, Leo. "I would say that if you don't feel like talking to the crowd, something is wrong, and if you force yourself to talk to them, things will happen, and, to that extent, things aren't choreographed." FixQuotes. February 19, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-would-say-that-if-you-dont-feel-like-talking-to-54843/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I would say that if you don't feel like talking to the crowd, something is wrong, and if you force yourself to talk to them, things will happen, and, to that extent, things aren't choreographed." FixQuotes, 19 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-would-say-that-if-you-dont-feel-like-talking-to-54843/. Accessed 27 Feb. 2026.


