"I wouldn't change one thing about my professional life, and I make it a point not to dwell on my mistakes"
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The sentence does two things at once. Publicly, it projects the hard-won confidence audiences expected from Merman: the brassy authority of a woman who didn’t ask permission to take up space. Privately, the “make it a point” reveals discipline, not denial. She’s admitting mistakes happened; she’s also insisting they don’t get to become her identity. That’s a survival strategy for someone whose profession turns judgment into a nightly ritual, where critics, producers, and crowds all feel entitled to a verdict.
The subtext is especially pointed given Merman’s era. A male star could be “temperamental” or “complicated.” A woman was punished for being anything but reliable. Not dwelling becomes a way to keep moving through an industry that would happily freeze a woman at her worst moment and call it her character. It’s also a subtle rebuttal to the myth that greatness is the product of perfect choices. Merman frames success as accumulation: every risky audition, every wrong turn, every too-muchness that later reads as inevitability.
She’s not preaching self-help. She’s modeling a professional posture: eyes forward, voice up, no refunds.
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| Topic | Learning from Mistakes |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Merman, Ethel. (2026, January 17). I wouldn't change one thing about my professional life, and I make it a point not to dwell on my mistakes. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-wouldnt-change-one-thing-about-my-professional-45175/
Chicago Style
Merman, Ethel. "I wouldn't change one thing about my professional life, and I make it a point not to dwell on my mistakes." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-wouldnt-change-one-thing-about-my-professional-45175/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I wouldn't change one thing about my professional life, and I make it a point not to dwell on my mistakes." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-wouldnt-change-one-thing-about-my-professional-45175/. Accessed 18 Feb. 2026.



