"I wouldn't change one thing about my professional life, and I make it a point not to dwell on my mistakes"
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A career built on volume, timing, and sheer nerve doesn’t leave much room for sentimental reruns. Ethel Merman’s line lands like a stage-door shrug with steel underneath: the refusal to “change one thing” isn’t naïveté, it’s a performance ethic. In show business, regret is dead weight. You can’t belt the next number if you’re still replaying the last missed cue.
The sentence does two things at once. Publicly, it projects the hard-won confidence audiences expected from Merman: the brassy authority of a woman who didn’t ask permission to take up space. Privately, the “make it a point” reveals discipline, not denial. She’s admitting mistakes happened; she’s also insisting they don’t get to become her identity. That’s a survival strategy for someone whose profession turns judgment into a nightly ritual, where critics, producers, and crowds all feel entitled to a verdict.
The subtext is especially pointed given Merman’s era. A male star could be “temperamental” or “complicated.” A woman was punished for being anything but reliable. Not dwelling becomes a way to keep moving through an industry that would happily freeze a woman at her worst moment and call it her character. It’s also a subtle rebuttal to the myth that greatness is the product of perfect choices. Merman frames success as accumulation: every risky audition, every wrong turn, every too-muchness that later reads as inevitability.
She’s not preaching self-help. She’s modeling a professional posture: eyes forward, voice up, no refunds.
The sentence does two things at once. Publicly, it projects the hard-won confidence audiences expected from Merman: the brassy authority of a woman who didn’t ask permission to take up space. Privately, the “make it a point” reveals discipline, not denial. She’s admitting mistakes happened; she’s also insisting they don’t get to become her identity. That’s a survival strategy for someone whose profession turns judgment into a nightly ritual, where critics, producers, and crowds all feel entitled to a verdict.
The subtext is especially pointed given Merman’s era. A male star could be “temperamental” or “complicated.” A woman was punished for being anything but reliable. Not dwelling becomes a way to keep moving through an industry that would happily freeze a woman at her worst moment and call it her character. It’s also a subtle rebuttal to the myth that greatness is the product of perfect choices. Merman frames success as accumulation: every risky audition, every wrong turn, every too-muchness that later reads as inevitability.
She’s not preaching self-help. She’s modeling a professional posture: eyes forward, voice up, no refunds.
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| Topic | Learning from Mistakes |
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