"I wouldn't have thought of myself as a person who could guide anybody and then it turned out that I can"
About this Quote
The phrasing matters. “I wouldn’t have thought of myself” frames guidance as an identity, not a skill you can simply acquire. It hints at how culturally loaded leadership is, especially for women in Hollywood, where being “likable” and being “in charge” have historically been treated as incompatible brands. Then the turn: “and then it turned out that I can.” It’s plainspoken, a little stunned, almost defensive in its modesty. She doesn’t claim to be a visionary; she claims to be capable. That’s a different kind of confidence: earned, reluctant, and therefore more believable.
Contextually, it reads like an actor talking about directing, producing, mentoring, or even parenting - arenas where authority isn’t bestowed by applause but by responsibility. The subtext is a cultural one: guidance often arrives after doubt, and credibility doesn’t always begin as self-belief. Sometimes it begins as showing up, again and again, until capability becomes identity.
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| Topic | Leadership |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Ryan, Meg. (2026, January 16). I wouldn't have thought of myself as a person who could guide anybody and then it turned out that I can. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-wouldnt-have-thought-of-myself-as-a-person-who-121618/
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Ryan, Meg. "I wouldn't have thought of myself as a person who could guide anybody and then it turned out that I can." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-wouldnt-have-thought-of-myself-as-a-person-who-121618/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I wouldn't have thought of myself as a person who could guide anybody and then it turned out that I can." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-wouldnt-have-thought-of-myself-as-a-person-who-121618/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.







