"I write for those women who do not speak, for those who do not have a voice because they were so terrified, because we are taught to respect fear more than ourselves. We've been taught that silence would save us, but it won't"
About this Quote
The line "respect fear more than ourselves" is a brutal reframing. Respect is usually reserved for authority, elders, rules. Lorde exposes how oppression hijacks that moral vocabulary, turning fear into something you honor, defer to, organize your life around. Then she lands the sentence that makes the whole passage combustible: "We've been taught that silence would save us, but it won't". It reads like a proverb, but it’s anti-proverbial: a corrective to survival advice handed down between women, especially those punished for being "too much" - too loud, too Black, too queer, too angry.
Context matters. Lorde wrote out of the Black feminist, lesbian, and anti-racist movements of the 1970s and 80s, where speaking up carried real costs: professional exile, violence, medical neglect, state surveillance. The subtext is unsentimental: silence is not neutrality. It’s exposure. Speech, for Lorde, is not safe - it’s necessary.
Quote Details
| Topic | Equality |
|---|---|
| Source | Audre Lorde, "The Transformation of Silence into Language and Action" (essay), collected in Sister Outsider: Essays and Speeches, Crossing Press, 1984 — passage beginning "I write for those who do not speak..." |
| Cite | Cite this Quote |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Lorde, Audre. (n.d.). I write for those women who do not speak, for those who do not have a voice because they were so terrified, because we are taught to respect fear more than ourselves. We've been taught that silence would save us, but it won't. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-write-for-those-women-who-do-not-speak-for-138385/
Chicago Style
Lorde, Audre. "I write for those women who do not speak, for those who do not have a voice because they were so terrified, because we are taught to respect fear more than ourselves. We've been taught that silence would save us, but it won't." FixQuotes. Accessed February 2, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-write-for-those-women-who-do-not-speak-for-138385/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I write for those women who do not speak, for those who do not have a voice because they were so terrified, because we are taught to respect fear more than ourselves. We've been taught that silence would save us, but it won't." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-write-for-those-women-who-do-not-speak-for-138385/. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.











