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Art & Creativity Quote by Audre Lorde

"I write for those women who do not speak, for those who do not have a voice because they were so terrified, because we are taught to respect fear more than ourselves. We've been taught that silence would save us, but it won't"

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Lorde isn’t offering comfort; she’s issuing a tactical directive. The opening clause, "I write for those women who do not speak", positions poetry as infrastructure, not ornament: language as a bridge to people systematically cut off from public speech. But she refuses the easy romance of "giving voice". Instead, she names why the voice is missing: terror, training, and a culture that treats fear as wisdom. That pivot - "because we are taught" - implicates institutions and intimacies alike: family, school, church, the workplace, the very scripts of femininity. Silence isn’t a personal flaw; it’s a curriculum.

The line "respect fear more than ourselves" is a brutal reframing. Respect is usually reserved for authority, elders, rules. Lorde exposes how oppression hijacks that moral vocabulary, turning fear into something you honor, defer to, organize your life around. Then she lands the sentence that makes the whole passage combustible: "We've been taught that silence would save us, but it won't". It reads like a proverb, but it’s anti-proverbial: a corrective to survival advice handed down between women, especially those punished for being "too much" - too loud, too Black, too queer, too angry.

Context matters. Lorde wrote out of the Black feminist, lesbian, and anti-racist movements of the 1970s and 80s, where speaking up carried real costs: professional exile, violence, medical neglect, state surveillance. The subtext is unsentimental: silence is not neutrality. It’s exposure. Speech, for Lorde, is not safe - it’s necessary.

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TopicEquality
SourceAudre Lorde, "The Transformation of Silence into Language and Action" (essay), collected in Sister Outsider: Essays and Speeches, Crossing Press, 1984 — passage beginning "I write for those who do not speak..."
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Lorde, Audre. (n.d.). I write for those women who do not speak, for those who do not have a voice because they were so terrified, because we are taught to respect fear more than ourselves. We've been taught that silence would save us, but it won't. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-write-for-those-women-who-do-not-speak-for-138385/

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Lorde, Audre. "I write for those women who do not speak, for those who do not have a voice because they were so terrified, because we are taught to respect fear more than ourselves. We've been taught that silence would save us, but it won't." FixQuotes. Accessed February 2, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-write-for-those-women-who-do-not-speak-for-138385/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I write for those women who do not speak, for those who do not have a voice because they were so terrified, because we are taught to respect fear more than ourselves. We've been taught that silence would save us, but it won't." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-write-for-those-women-who-do-not-speak-for-138385/. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.

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Audre Lorde

Audre Lorde (February 18, 1934 - November 17, 1992) was a Poet from USA.

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