"I write songs as a way of understanding myself, and then I put them out so other people can understand themselves too"
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The subtext is a boundary. By saying she “puts them out” after the self-understanding happens, she separates the act of creation from the act of consumption. The listener isn’t invited to rummage through her life for clues; they’re invited to use the song. That matters in a Mitski-shaped cultural context where fans often demand intimacy as proof of authenticity, treating musicians like open tabs in a browser. Her phrasing insists the work can be intimate without being extractive.
It also captures why her music hits so hard: the specificity is structural, not biographical. The songs don’t function as gossip; they function as mirrors with better lighting. When she says “so other people can understand themselves too,” she’s describing a pipeline of recognition, the moment a listener hears a line and feels both exposed and steadied. In an era when “relatable” has been flattened into content, Mitski is defending a harder, older idea: art as a disciplined method for making private chaos legible, first to the artist, then to everyone else.
Quote Details
| Topic | Music |
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| Source | Mitski interview with BBC Radio 1 (February 2022) about Laurel Hell |
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Mitski. (2026, January 30). I write songs as a way of understanding myself, and then I put them out so other people can understand themselves too. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-write-songs-as-a-way-of-understanding-myself-184723/
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Mitski. "I write songs as a way of understanding myself, and then I put them out so other people can understand themselves too." FixQuotes. January 30, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-write-songs-as-a-way-of-understanding-myself-184723/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I write songs as a way of understanding myself, and then I put them out so other people can understand themselves too." FixQuotes, 30 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-write-songs-as-a-way-of-understanding-myself-184723/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.





