"I write with experiences in mind, but I don't write about them, I write out of them"
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The intent is protective and liberating at once. Protective, because it denies the reader the easy pry-bar of biography. Liberating, because it frames experience as raw energy rather than content that must be processed into narrative. The subtext is an argument with a culture that treats poems like receipts: prove you felt something, show us what happened, translate your private life into public meaning. Ashbery insists the opposite: the real event is what the mind does when it collides with lived time, how perception stutters, reroutes, contradicts itself.
Context matters here. Ashbery’s work, shaped by surrealism, New York School cool, and an era increasingly hungry for “authentic” self-revelation, often stages consciousness mid-motion - digressive, funny, evasive, intimate without being intimate about anything in particular. Writing “out of” experience explains that signature slipperiness: not a refusal to feel, but a refusal to reduce feeling to plot. The poem becomes aftermath, not diary.
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"I write with experiences in mind, but I don't write about them, I write out of them." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-write-with-experiences-in-mind-but-i-dont-write-161963/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.





