"I'd always maintained an image so that people wouldn't approach me"
About this Quote
The verb choice matters. “Maintained” suggests labor, not spontaneity. This isn’t authenticity versus performance; it’s upkeep, a routine of calibrating how you look, sound, and carry yourself so strangers take the hint. “So that people wouldn’t approach me” is blunt to the point of comedy, but the comedy is doing real work: it punctures the sentimental mythology of fame. Lurie isn’t confessing loneliness so much as insisting on boundaries in a culture that treats visibility as public property.
Coming from Lurie - downtown New York’s laconic cool as a musician, actor, and painter - the quote also reads as a mini-manifesto of aesthetic distance. His whole vibe has often been a kind of stylish unavailability: the deadpan, the angular detachment, the sense that you’re watching someone who refuses to audition for your approval. The subtext is that “approachability” is itself a demand placed on public figures, especially in informal, fan-driven environments where the line between admiration and entitlement gets blurry.
It’s a practical philosophy disguised as a throwaway remark: if the world insists on turning you into a surface, you can at least choose the texture.
Quote Details
| Topic | Loneliness |
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| Source | Help us find the source |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Lurie, John. (2026, January 17). I'd always maintained an image so that people wouldn't approach me. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/id-always-maintained-an-image-so-that-people-56594/
Chicago Style
Lurie, John. "I'd always maintained an image so that people wouldn't approach me." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/id-always-maintained-an-image-so-that-people-56594/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I'd always maintained an image so that people wouldn't approach me." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/id-always-maintained-an-image-so-that-people-56594/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.






