"I'd be lying if I said I wasn't angry some days. But I really have worked hard to put a lot of the anger and disappointment in the past"
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The line "angry some days" lands with the understated realism of trauma that never fully vacates the body. It’s not a sweeping confession designed for sympathy; it’s a calibrated admission that inoculates against the predictable backlash: Why aren’t you over it? Why are you still talking? Lewinsky answers without pleading. Some days still hurt. That’s normal.
Then comes the most loaded phrase: "worked hard". This is subtext as critique. She’s pointing to the unpaid labor demanded of women who survive public humiliation: the expectation to metabolize the damage gracefully, to be "resilient" on schedule, to package pain into an inspiring arc. "Put...in the past" isn’t denial; it’s boundary-setting. She claims ownership of her emotional timeline in a culture that turned her into late-night fodder, then asked her to disappear.
In the broader #MeToo-era context, the quote reads as a refusal of the old binary: either bitter or broken. She insists on complexity, and in doing so, exposes how the scandal’s longest aftermath wasn’t political. It was personal, and it was hers.
Quote Details
| Topic | Letting Go |
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| Source | Help us find the source |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Lewinsky, Monica. (2026, January 17). I'd be lying if I said I wasn't angry some days. But I really have worked hard to put a lot of the anger and disappointment in the past. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/id-be-lying-if-i-said-i-wasnt-angry-some-days-but-80164/
Chicago Style
Lewinsky, Monica. "I'd be lying if I said I wasn't angry some days. But I really have worked hard to put a lot of the anger and disappointment in the past." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/id-be-lying-if-i-said-i-wasnt-angry-some-days-but-80164/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I'd be lying if I said I wasn't angry some days. But I really have worked hard to put a lot of the anger and disappointment in the past." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/id-be-lying-if-i-said-i-wasnt-angry-some-days-but-80164/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.










