"I'd been trying for all of the eight years we'd been married to have a child, and finally I did"
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The specific intent feels twofold. On the surface it’s a joke about fertility and persistence, built to get a laugh without spilling details. Underneath, it’s a quiet critique of how women were expected to frame desire as marital, communal, approved. Windsor flips that script: she wanted a child, full stop. The husband is present only as a unit of time - “all of the eight years” - which makes him sound less like a co-author of a life than an obstacle course.
Context matters: Windsor’s career thrived in an era when actresses were boxed into “good girl” domesticity or “bad girl” glamour. This line lets her play both at once. It performs innocence (a woman yearning for motherhood) while smuggling in something sharper: agency, impatience, possibly even a wink at the messy realities behind the Production Code version of marriage. It works because it refuses sentimentality, and because the last three words yank the audience into complicity with the joke - then leave them wondering what, exactly, they just laughed at.
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| Topic | New Mom |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Windsor, Marie. (n.d.). I'd been trying for all of the eight years we'd been married to have a child, and finally I did. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/id-been-trying-for-all-of-the-eight-years-wed-55088/
Chicago Style
Windsor, Marie. "I'd been trying for all of the eight years we'd been married to have a child, and finally I did." FixQuotes. Accessed February 2, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/id-been-trying-for-all-of-the-eight-years-wed-55088/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I'd been trying for all of the eight years we'd been married to have a child, and finally I did." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/id-been-trying-for-all-of-the-eight-years-wed-55088/. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.




