"I'd excluded New York from my writing, and then I came back and I fell in love with it all over again. The energy comes from an absence, that yearning for New York when you are not there"
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Then he returns and “falls in love” again - not because the city has changed, but because distance has made him newly susceptible. That’s the sleight of hand in the line: the energy isn’t just in New York itself; it’s in the negative space around it. “The energy comes from an absence” is a writer’s paradox, a claim that the most generative material is what you don’t have on hand. Yearning becomes a kind of narrative engine: when you’re away, the city turns into an idea, sharpened by memory, grievance, nostalgia, fantasy. When you’re there, it’s rent and noise and crowds; when you’re gone, it’s possibility.
Context matters: Lethem is a Brooklyn-born novelist who’s watched New York mutate through gentrification, cultural mythmaking, post-9/11 politics, and the endless debate over who “gets” to claim the city. The subtext is that New York’s power isn’t merely local. It’s portable, carried in the ache of leaving and the compulsion to return - a romance sustained by separation, and a craft trick that turns homesickness into prose.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Lethem, Jonathan. (2026, January 15). I'd excluded New York from my writing, and then I came back and I fell in love with it all over again. The energy comes from an absence, that yearning for New York when you are not there. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/id-excluded-new-york-from-my-writing-and-then-i-146164/
Chicago Style
Lethem, Jonathan. "I'd excluded New York from my writing, and then I came back and I fell in love with it all over again. The energy comes from an absence, that yearning for New York when you are not there." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/id-excluded-new-york-from-my-writing-and-then-i-146164/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I'd excluded New York from my writing, and then I came back and I fell in love with it all over again. The energy comes from an absence, that yearning for New York when you are not there." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/id-excluded-new-york-from-my-writing-and-then-i-146164/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

