"I'd forgotten what it was like to play music and have it be fun so I decided to stop. I wasn't even sure if I was going to make a new record, I was just kinda quitting"
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The intent is blunt self-preservation, but the subtext is sharper. “Forgotten” hints at how thoroughly the machinery of being Evan Dando - touring, expectations, the myth of the frontman - can overwrite the actual pleasure of making sound. The line “have it be fun” separates music as an act from music as an industry product. He’s not rejecting music; he’s rejecting what music became when it had to justify itself.
Then there’s the cultural context: Dando is a 90s indie-rock figure whose public narrative has long been tangled with fame’s hangover, personal chaos, and the slow grind of being turned into a vibe. In that light, “just kinda quitting” reads less like indecision and more like a refusal to perform a dramatic exit. No comeback arc, no manifesto, just the quiet, messy truth that an artist can stop because the joy evaporated.
It works because it punctures the romantic lie that musicians are obligated to suffer for the work. Dando’s version of integrity is smaller, more human: if the music isn’t play, it isn’t worth playing.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Dando, Evan. (2026, January 17). I'd forgotten what it was like to play music and have it be fun so I decided to stop. I wasn't even sure if I was going to make a new record, I was just kinda quitting. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/id-forgotten-what-it-was-like-to-play-music-and-54376/
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Dando, Evan. "I'd forgotten what it was like to play music and have it be fun so I decided to stop. I wasn't even sure if I was going to make a new record, I was just kinda quitting." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/id-forgotten-what-it-was-like-to-play-music-and-54376/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I'd forgotten what it was like to play music and have it be fun so I decided to stop. I wasn't even sure if I was going to make a new record, I was just kinda quitting." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/id-forgotten-what-it-was-like-to-play-music-and-54376/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.


