"I'd like to be a wife and mother. I guess I'll know Mr. Right when I meet him"
About this Quote
The phrasing does quiet work. “I’d like” signals preference, not demand. “I guess” adds a shrug, a buffer against judgment; it lets her want something traditional without sounding militant about tradition. Then comes the fairytale shorthand: “Mr. Right.” It’s a cultural keyword that collapses messy realities - compatibility, compromise, power - into a single, reassuring figure. The subtext isn’t naivete; it’s manageability. By locating certainty in a future meeting, she sidesteps the loaded present tense of dating, desire, and agency. The choice to “know” rather than “choose” makes romance feel like fate instead of negotiation.
Context matters: for women in entertainment, especially those building careers in the late 20th and early 21st century, public narratives about marriage and motherhood were often treated as moral resume items. Cross’s line plays into that expectation while keeping her autonomy intact: she’s naming a goal, but leaving the casting call open.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Cross, Marcia. (2026, January 16). I'd like to be a wife and mother. I guess I'll know Mr. Right when I meet him. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/id-like-to-be-a-wife-and-mother-i-guess-ill-know-122967/
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Cross, Marcia. "I'd like to be a wife and mother. I guess I'll know Mr. Right when I meet him." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/id-like-to-be-a-wife-and-mother-i-guess-ill-know-122967/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I'd like to be a wife and mother. I guess I'll know Mr. Right when I meet him." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/id-like-to-be-a-wife-and-mother-i-guess-ill-know-122967/. Accessed 5 Feb. 2026.







