"I'd love to be a man for a day, just to see what it's like"
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The phrasing matters. “For a day” keeps it playful and nonthreatening, a classic rhetorical softener women often use to talk about power without being punished for wanting it. “Just to see what it’s like” pretends the request is observational, not political. That’s the subtext: she’s naming an asymmetry while disavowing anger, making the thought palatable in a culture that prefers women’s critique with a smile.
In Murphy’s era, the “male gaze” wasn’t just a theory; it was a production note. Being a man for a day would mean moving through rooms without the constant negotiation of safety, without being read first as a body, without having one’s ambition framed as attitude. It would mean authority arriving pre-installed: fewer interruptions, fewer assumptions that charm is the main currency.
There’s also a flicker of melancholy. Murphy’s public persona was often “adorable,” “quirky,” “fragile” - adjectives that can become cages. The quote turns that cage into a question, and the question into a quiet indictment: if it’s so tempting to switch, what does that say about the world we’ve built?
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Murphy, Brittany. (2026, January 16). I'd love to be a man for a day, just to see what it's like. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/id-love-to-be-a-man-for-a-day-just-to-see-what-123426/
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Murphy, Brittany. "I'd love to be a man for a day, just to see what it's like." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/id-love-to-be-a-man-for-a-day-just-to-see-what-123426/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I'd love to be a man for a day, just to see what it's like." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/id-love-to-be-a-man-for-a-day-just-to-see-what-123426/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.





