"I'd make a comment at a meeting and nobody would even acknowledge me. Then some man would say the same thing and they'd all nod"
About this Quote
Bunch, a central figure in second-wave feminism and a major architect of women’s rights as human rights, is naming a pattern activists have long documented: the gendered economy of attention. Meetings are supposed to be democratic theaters of reason; she exposes them as stages where authority is pre-assigned. The subtext is about gatekeeping dressed up as neutrality. When people insist they’re simply responding to “the best idea,” Bunch’s anecdote shows how “best” often means “familiar,” and “familiar” often means male.
What makes the quote work is its specificity and its refusal to soften. No grand theory, just a recognizable scene that indicts an entire culture of professional respectability. It’s also a tactic: by making the bias narratable, Bunch turns private frustration into shared evidence - the first step toward changing the room.
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| Topic | Equality |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Bunch, Charlotte. (2026, January 16). I'd make a comment at a meeting and nobody would even acknowledge me. Then some man would say the same thing and they'd all nod. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/id-make-a-comment-at-a-meeting-and-nobody-would-101574/
Chicago Style
Bunch, Charlotte. "I'd make a comment at a meeting and nobody would even acknowledge me. Then some man would say the same thing and they'd all nod." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/id-make-a-comment-at-a-meeting-and-nobody-would-101574/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I'd make a comment at a meeting and nobody would even acknowledge me. Then some man would say the same thing and they'd all nod." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/id-make-a-comment-at-a-meeting-and-nobody-would-101574/. Accessed 9 Feb. 2026.








