"I'd never been to a prom, I had never had the whole high school experience. I think I was kind of an anomaly. I don't think they knew where to put me"
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The line "I don't think they knew where to put me" does a lot of cultural work. It shifts the spotlight away from the familiar narrative of the outsider as self-styled rebel and toward something more awkward: institutions, friend groups, and social hierarchies that rely on categories. If you don’t fit the template - not quite jock, not quite theater kid, not quite anything the school can label - you become a logistical problem. The subtext isn’t simply loneliness; it’s misplacement. Being unusual isn’t portrayed as glamorous, it’s bureaucratic.
As an actress, Witt is also hinting at a formative distance from the "normal" adolescence that so much American entertainment fetishizes. She’s speaking from the perspective of someone who entered the world early, professionally and psychologically, and then had to watch the standard teen script from the wings. The intent feels less like complaint than reclamation: naming the gap, owning the weirdness, and exposing how often "fitting in" is really about other people’s limited imagination.
Quote Details
| Topic | Loneliness |
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| Source | Help us find the source |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Witt, Alicia. (2026, January 15). I'd never been to a prom, I had never had the whole high school experience. I think I was kind of an anomaly. I don't think they knew where to put me. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/id-never-been-to-a-prom-i-had-never-had-the-whole-157687/
Chicago Style
Witt, Alicia. "I'd never been to a prom, I had never had the whole high school experience. I think I was kind of an anomaly. I don't think they knew where to put me." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/id-never-been-to-a-prom-i-had-never-had-the-whole-157687/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I'd never been to a prom, I had never had the whole high school experience. I think I was kind of an anomaly. I don't think they knew where to put me." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/id-never-been-to-a-prom-i-had-never-had-the-whole-157687/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.












